Really, it was inevitable. Whether or not this was indeed a terror attack (indications point to it being more a probability than a possibility), remains to be conclusively reported.
Ramming people with a van or truck has been used in several countries in the past few years. It was done in Nice, France on Bastille Day. It was done in London, England outside the Parliament Buildings. It has been done in Israel several times (until they decided to switch to stabbing attacks on Jewish citizens instead). And it was attempted in Edmonton, Alberta, Canada in the not too far past.
This is not the first (possible terrorist) attack in Canada. There was a shooting at our own parliament buildings a few years ago in which the life of a Canadian Forces member was ended. There was the mosque shooting in Quebec.
However, despite the fact that details have not come to light regarding motive - the police haven't released that information yet, but they do have the driver in custody - already terrorism is being touted as the reason. I've seen ISIS being blamed (as far as I know, they haven't taken responsibility yet). People I know are blaming Muslim extremists already.
And if anyone disagrees with them, they're beginning to bully those who don't tow the 'It's the Muslims' line.
I don't know what was behind this tragedy. I'm not in the police services, and I'm not in the media.
I will wait to see what the authorities have to say.
Stay safe everyone. Let's use this tragedy to become a community, and not tear ourselves apart with hate.
Monday, April 23, 2018
Saturday, April 14, 2018
Did I Really Let Nearly Two Years Go By?
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| Squish finished of Grade 8 by winning the Drama and Arts award for her Dance Presentation |
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| First day of school - GRADE 9! |
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| Cadet Banana at the Aurora Santa Claus Parade |
Her favourite activity is gliding and she was bummed when she found out that Band Competition and Gliding were on the same day. Then she found out that the band would be bussed from the competition to the airfield for their chance to glide. Here's hoping the weather holds for them (the fall gliding session was cancelled because of weather, and as I write this, we are experiencing a nice Spring ice storm).
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| Cadet Banana heading off to General Training |
This summer, she got her dream offer and will be spending three weeks at Base Borden, about 45 minutes from home, and participating in Basic Survival. She states that her desire is to go into Search and Rescue as a career. This will definitely be a stepping stone towards that goal. I can't wait for her to go because she is so excited about it!
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| Cadet Banana and some of her Flight from Summer Training |
Squish is completely different from Banana. She definitely marches to the beat of her own... Bass guitar. Squish is my little rockstar, and I say that with no irony. She has been studying Bass guitar for about 3 years now, and she's really good! She learns most music by ear and while she also has taken piano lessons and has a keyboard that she plays around on sometimes, her real love seems to be Bass. She has been taking lessons through Rockstar Music and initially started out in "Group Jams" and had private lessons - so she was taking music twice a week. This year, she's only going once a week, but gets a 2 hour Group Jam where, evidently, they are also learning to write their own songs.
Twice a year, the school puts on a rock show and we get to see and hear the talent from these kids. They take kids in pretty young, so we've seen 4 or 5 year old ukelele players and 16 or 17 year old drummers and guitarists show off their talents in the showcases.Squish has also joined the Gay/Straight Alliance at school (Banana did too) and has gone to a couple of workshops, has participated in fundraisers and awareness days at school.
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| Those aren't real bruises. That's makeup! |
Her passion is still Special Effects Makeup, and she is taking Aesthetics as one of her elective courses. At Hallowe'en, they learned some special effects makeup techniques, and during the rest of the year, they deal with regular types of makeup, including day wear, evening wear and theatre makeup. They also do hairstyling and she's learned how to use different types of curling irons and I gave her permission to have her hair dyed. She also has my permission to have her hair cut if ever needed as part of a project/lesson. She's a smart kid - she won't let someone with no clue touch her head.
Last month, she participated in a fashion show at school, and Banana took video of it for us to see. My kid looked great. The kids picked their own clothes to wear and the theme was supposed to be 'futuristic', Squish picked some great outfits. A dress she 'made' (by altering a dress she already owned) and part of a costume we bought for her for Fan Expo here in Toronto.
That's another one of her passions - Fan Expo. We go - Banana, Squish and I, every year on at least one day. Squish and I go for the Walking Dead panels (hoping, of course, that there IS a Walking Dead panel, since last year the only panel was on the Saturday, and we usually go on the Sunday). And Squish and Banana like to go for Anime panels (last year we went to the Women in Voice Acting panel for Anime). They always hope there will be an opportunity for them to meet some of their favourite Anime voice actors. This year, I'm sort of hoping to volunteer at Fan Expo and hoping I can get the girls in one, or two days. We miss a lot of the Expo because we focus on the panels and on the North Building, where vendors we like are. We do go down to the South Building, but often, there aren't things for the girls that they like. The convention floor in the South Building is a lot of comic retailers and other types of merchandise that they aren't interested (like Artist's Alley) as well as displays by various media companies, and if it isn't Walking Dead or something Anime, they aren't interested.
As for me? Well, I had some interesting news this past January. I found my birth mother. Most people who know me, know I'm adopted, and some knew I'd actually started looking. Well, I finally applied for information through the Government and was sent a copy of my Adoption Order (which my parents had and had given me a copy of), and my Statement of Live Birth. Through those documents, I learned my birth mother's name, her address at the time of my birth, and her birthday. Through a Facebook page, I got a "search angel" who tracked her down through Facebook and while she doesn't seem to want any contact (I keep saying 'she wants nothing to do with me,' but that's not really fair), I did get some medical information and a little bit of background (in as much as apparently I come from a long line of 'strong, independent women'. People who know me seem to be shocked - LOL!) She has pictures of myself and the girls and she has my email address. I also sent her a little note through my search angel and let her know that I would be interested in an email conversation - that I'm not looking to replace my current family and I'm certainly not looking for a 'new mom'. I let her know that I have never held against her her decision to give me up for adoption (although I know the reasons but my search angel said she hadn't wanted to hurt me with the information. I actually guessed it). I'm hoping maybe one day she'll reach out. I might send her a message asking her about her parents. Her dad fought in World War 2 and I'd love to be able to honour him on Remembrance Day.
I think that pretty much you all caught up. Enjoy a cup of ice cream. Like the girls are in the picture below. Ice cream solves everything. Even coffee withdrawl ('cause you know, coffee ice cream)
XXOO
Gayla
Tuesday, April 26, 2016
Transgenders in the bathroom scare me
But do you know why?
(Before you start ranting about me being irrational and start spewing facts about the number of assaults in public washrooms committed by transgendered people - please read on first...)
Not because I think a transgendered woman is going to attack me or my daughters in a public restroom.
Not because I think a transgendered woman is going to take a peek at my 'naughty bits' in a public washroom.
But because suddenly, our oh-so-tolerant society (yes, that eye-roll you feel coming on -- let 'er rip) that I live in, has suddenly become (not so suddenly) oh, so intolerant.
North Carolina is passing legislation that will force - FORCE - transgendered people to use the bathroom that matches the gender they were assigned at birth, not the gender with which they identify.
So, basically, a man, who was born a woman, would have to share the bathroom with my daughters. Now, do I think that man is going to assault my daughters? No.
My fear isn't for my daughters at the hands of transgendered anybodys. My fear is for the transgendered people who get hassled every single day of their lives. Who have lived a life of fear far deeper than the fear that is instilled in girls throughout their lives. My fear is for the transgendered man in the women's washroom because North Carolina says he has to use that washroom due to what his birth certificate says.
And who's checking this, anyway? Is North Carolina going to hire a bunch of gender identifiers? Are they going to start requiring transgendered people to register with the government and wear some sort of identifying mark?
You know who did that once? Look how that turned out.
No. I'm not afraid of a woman sharing a bathroom with me who may or may not have been born a woman. Seriously - I just need to pee. And likely, so does she. I'm not afraid OF the man standing awkwardly outside a bathroom in North Carolina, trying to decide if he's brave enough to go into the men's washroom and risk 'getting caught', or if he should go into the women's washroom because that's where in North Carolina, his birth certificate says he is supposed to go. And what happens when he walks in there and some woman comes out and complains? Do you think someone will say "oh, well, he's transgendered, so it's all cool. Just relax" or "hey dude, you're not supposed to be in the women's washroom!"
No. I don't foresee any problems arising from this! (yep - eye roll again).
This is just another - I don't know - attempt - to force one person's (or in this case, group of people's) biased views on another group regardless of the repercussions.
I have to say, I don't think this was well thought out. Because really, what place does the government have in the pants of its citizens?
And if there are ever any transgendered women who are afraid to use the women's washroom for fear someone might say something.... I'll go with you.
(Before you start ranting about me being irrational and start spewing facts about the number of assaults in public washrooms committed by transgendered people - please read on first...)
Not because I think a transgendered woman is going to attack me or my daughters in a public restroom.
Not because I think a transgendered woman is going to take a peek at my 'naughty bits' in a public washroom.
But because suddenly, our oh-so-tolerant society (yes, that eye-roll you feel coming on -- let 'er rip) that I live in, has suddenly become (not so suddenly) oh, so intolerant.
North Carolina is passing legislation that will force - FORCE - transgendered people to use the bathroom that matches the gender they were assigned at birth, not the gender with which they identify.
So, basically, a man, who was born a woman, would have to share the bathroom with my daughters. Now, do I think that man is going to assault my daughters? No.
My fear isn't for my daughters at the hands of transgendered anybodys. My fear is for the transgendered people who get hassled every single day of their lives. Who have lived a life of fear far deeper than the fear that is instilled in girls throughout their lives. My fear is for the transgendered man in the women's washroom because North Carolina says he has to use that washroom due to what his birth certificate says.
And who's checking this, anyway? Is North Carolina going to hire a bunch of gender identifiers? Are they going to start requiring transgendered people to register with the government and wear some sort of identifying mark?
You know who did that once? Look how that turned out.
No. I'm not afraid of a woman sharing a bathroom with me who may or may not have been born a woman. Seriously - I just need to pee. And likely, so does she. I'm not afraid OF the man standing awkwardly outside a bathroom in North Carolina, trying to decide if he's brave enough to go into the men's washroom and risk 'getting caught', or if he should go into the women's washroom because that's where in North Carolina, his birth certificate says he is supposed to go. And what happens when he walks in there and some woman comes out and complains? Do you think someone will say "oh, well, he's transgendered, so it's all cool. Just relax" or "hey dude, you're not supposed to be in the women's washroom!"
No. I don't foresee any problems arising from this! (yep - eye roll again).
This is just another - I don't know - attempt - to force one person's (or in this case, group of people's) biased views on another group regardless of the repercussions.
I have to say, I don't think this was well thought out. Because really, what place does the government have in the pants of its citizens?
And if there are ever any transgendered women who are afraid to use the women's washroom for fear someone might say something.... I'll go with you.
Wednesday, April 20, 2016
The Neon Pink Backpack.
About seven or eight years ago, I was diagnosed with a life threatening illness. 20% of Canadians will be diagnosed with this in their lifetime. 100% of Canadians will be affected either by friends or family who will be diagnosed with this. It's one of those illnesses that doesn't discriminate based on age, economic status, gender, or culture.
Treatment is pretty simple. Medications control the illness and its symptoms. Effective treatments and consistent follow-up with my medical team help keep the illness in check and avoid major complications.
But there is one huge difference.
People run away from people like me. No one is lining up to offer me or my family support, keep my kids busy, visit or call or bring meals.
If I had cancer (and this is not at all to say that cancer in and of itself isn't serious), the amount of support my family would be offered would be immeasurable.
But I don't have cancer.
I have depression. It can affect every waking moment of every single day. It can leave me exhausted by simply getting out of bed in the morning. There can be days where just getting a shower or making a meal feels like a gargantuan feat.
And there are the good days. The days where I practically spring out of bed, ready to face my day, fight the good fight, and feel like bedtime can't come soon enough because I have been so busy and productive that I have exhausted myself, but I feel ready for more.
Thankfully, there are more of those days than the former.
The thing is, the stigma of mental illness is such that while 100% of Canadians are going to be affected by this disease, those that are lucky enough to not have the disease do not understand what their actions do to those who do.
When you have a friend who is diagnosed as depressed, deciding that it's too hard for you to deal with is probably the most selfish and hurtful thing you can do. Depression is isolating. Depression can be all consuming. The person with depression might come off as angry and rude, but the reality is, they are - they are angry that they are feeling so low, and they (we) don't know how to handle it. We push people away because we don't want to be with ourselves. When you have a friend who seems to be pushing away, you should be pulling them in closer. Not accepting that they are pushing you away. Once you've isolated that friend, or rather, once that person has isolated themselves from you, your response, or lack of response, simply solidifies in their mind that they are the worthless piece of junk their brain has told them they are.
When a depressed person feels abandoned by her friends, not reaching out simply tells that person that she is indeed abandoned. That the people she thought cared, really don't. Because if they did, they would not have abandoned her.
It's a state of mind and it's cruel. Chemical imbalances that require medical intervention are cruel.
Imagine, for a minute, that you had a 100 pound weight on your back. You cannot put that weight down for anything. It's already on you when you get up in the morning, and you can't take it off to shower, use the toilet, brush your teeth or cook breakfast. You can't take it off to drive to work, or do your grocery shopping. You can't take it off at work at your desk, and you must absolutely carry it around everywhere you go. It goes to bed with you, too.
But you can't tell anyone about it either. Because people don't want to know about your 100-lb backpack. They would much rather ignore it and pretend that even though it's neon pink, doesn't match with your outfit, and sometimes even has a flashing light and siren that will go off at intermittent, unplanned intervals, we just don't talk about pink backpacks. Your pink backpack is your problem to deal with. No one else wants to know about it.
Chances are, they have their own backpacks. Some of them are heavy, but match well with their outfits, so they're hardly recognizable, and often, they are someone else's burden, that they are carrying for that person. Or that they have taken on of their own accord.
Sometimes, the backpack looks like your neon pink backpack, but it also has a sign on it that says "cancer", and people are drawn to helping them with their backpack. Or trying. They'll offer to take a few things out of their backpack in an attempt to lighten their load. Sometimes, their backpack is much bigger than yours. Sometimes, their backpack is so big, it's only a matter of time before the backpack takes them away. And those people struggle if not just as hard, sometimes even more than we do with our intermittent-siren-and-lights backpack.
Sometimes, people have a big pink backpack, but all they carry in it is one or two small things. They think their backpack is the same as your backpack, but they need all the attention. They've found a way to trip the siren and the light so it goes off all the time. They get the sympathy you crave, even though you haven't told anyone about your backpack, and have tried to hide it by covering it with something that makes it look like everybody else's backpack. You force yourself to stand taller and not bend over the weight of your backpack, so you can look like you're not carrying a 100-lb noisy and light emitting backpack.
And just when you think you've got a handle on the weight of your backpack, something inside shifts and the weight is once again unevenly distributed. Now you have to find your balance again with this shift. See if you can figure out what shifted and whether or not you can get it back in place, or if you have to find a new way to cope with this new distribution. There are professional backpack packers. They can help you pack your backpack in new ways and even help you get rid of some burdensome items. Buy they won't come to you. You have to find them. And sometimes you may not like the way they pack your backpack, so you have to try another one who will help you, and not tell you how to pack your backpack.
Everyone has a backpack. They're all different sizes with all sorts of different items in them. You can ask for help, but your friends should realize when your backpack might be getting too heavy. As people with depression, we need people who will be there when our backpack gets too heavy or the load shifts. We already recognize that other people's backpacks are also heavy. And because we don't want to add the weight of our backpack, we pretend our backpack isn't as heavy as it is. We carry ourselves and hide the weight of our packs. Just so our friends, the people we are supposed to turn to when our packs are heavy, won't feel burdened by our loads.
Don't be that sort of friend. If you have a friend with a neon pink backpack that intermittently sounds a siren and flashes lights, ask them if they need help with their load. Sometimes, that's all they need. To know someone recognizes they have a heavy load and are willing to help. Don't stop calling and inviting them or excluding them because their backpack is a garish shade of pink. Remember, they didn't choose to have this neon pink backpack with the lights and sirens. This is the backpack they were given.
Treatment is pretty simple. Medications control the illness and its symptoms. Effective treatments and consistent follow-up with my medical team help keep the illness in check and avoid major complications.
But there is one huge difference.
People run away from people like me. No one is lining up to offer me or my family support, keep my kids busy, visit or call or bring meals.
If I had cancer (and this is not at all to say that cancer in and of itself isn't serious), the amount of support my family would be offered would be immeasurable.
But I don't have cancer.
I have depression. It can affect every waking moment of every single day. It can leave me exhausted by simply getting out of bed in the morning. There can be days where just getting a shower or making a meal feels like a gargantuan feat.
And there are the good days. The days where I practically spring out of bed, ready to face my day, fight the good fight, and feel like bedtime can't come soon enough because I have been so busy and productive that I have exhausted myself, but I feel ready for more.
Thankfully, there are more of those days than the former.
The thing is, the stigma of mental illness is such that while 100% of Canadians are going to be affected by this disease, those that are lucky enough to not have the disease do not understand what their actions do to those who do.
When you have a friend who is diagnosed as depressed, deciding that it's too hard for you to deal with is probably the most selfish and hurtful thing you can do. Depression is isolating. Depression can be all consuming. The person with depression might come off as angry and rude, but the reality is, they are - they are angry that they are feeling so low, and they (we) don't know how to handle it. We push people away because we don't want to be with ourselves. When you have a friend who seems to be pushing away, you should be pulling them in closer. Not accepting that they are pushing you away. Once you've isolated that friend, or rather, once that person has isolated themselves from you, your response, or lack of response, simply solidifies in their mind that they are the worthless piece of junk their brain has told them they are.
When a depressed person feels abandoned by her friends, not reaching out simply tells that person that she is indeed abandoned. That the people she thought cared, really don't. Because if they did, they would not have abandoned her.
It's a state of mind and it's cruel. Chemical imbalances that require medical intervention are cruel.
Imagine, for a minute, that you had a 100 pound weight on your back. You cannot put that weight down for anything. It's already on you when you get up in the morning, and you can't take it off to shower, use the toilet, brush your teeth or cook breakfast. You can't take it off to drive to work, or do your grocery shopping. You can't take it off at work at your desk, and you must absolutely carry it around everywhere you go. It goes to bed with you, too.
But you can't tell anyone about it either. Because people don't want to know about your 100-lb backpack. They would much rather ignore it and pretend that even though it's neon pink, doesn't match with your outfit, and sometimes even has a flashing light and siren that will go off at intermittent, unplanned intervals, we just don't talk about pink backpacks. Your pink backpack is your problem to deal with. No one else wants to know about it.
Chances are, they have their own backpacks. Some of them are heavy, but match well with their outfits, so they're hardly recognizable, and often, they are someone else's burden, that they are carrying for that person. Or that they have taken on of their own accord.
Sometimes, the backpack looks like your neon pink backpack, but it also has a sign on it that says "cancer", and people are drawn to helping them with their backpack. Or trying. They'll offer to take a few things out of their backpack in an attempt to lighten their load. Sometimes, their backpack is much bigger than yours. Sometimes, their backpack is so big, it's only a matter of time before the backpack takes them away. And those people struggle if not just as hard, sometimes even more than we do with our intermittent-siren-and-lights backpack.
Sometimes, people have a big pink backpack, but all they carry in it is one or two small things. They think their backpack is the same as your backpack, but they need all the attention. They've found a way to trip the siren and the light so it goes off all the time. They get the sympathy you crave, even though you haven't told anyone about your backpack, and have tried to hide it by covering it with something that makes it look like everybody else's backpack. You force yourself to stand taller and not bend over the weight of your backpack, so you can look like you're not carrying a 100-lb noisy and light emitting backpack.
And just when you think you've got a handle on the weight of your backpack, something inside shifts and the weight is once again unevenly distributed. Now you have to find your balance again with this shift. See if you can figure out what shifted and whether or not you can get it back in place, or if you have to find a new way to cope with this new distribution. There are professional backpack packers. They can help you pack your backpack in new ways and even help you get rid of some burdensome items. Buy they won't come to you. You have to find them. And sometimes you may not like the way they pack your backpack, so you have to try another one who will help you, and not tell you how to pack your backpack.
Everyone has a backpack. They're all different sizes with all sorts of different items in them. You can ask for help, but your friends should realize when your backpack might be getting too heavy. As people with depression, we need people who will be there when our backpack gets too heavy or the load shifts. We already recognize that other people's backpacks are also heavy. And because we don't want to add the weight of our backpack, we pretend our backpack isn't as heavy as it is. We carry ourselves and hide the weight of our packs. Just so our friends, the people we are supposed to turn to when our packs are heavy, won't feel burdened by our loads.
Don't be that sort of friend. If you have a friend with a neon pink backpack that intermittently sounds a siren and flashes lights, ask them if they need help with their load. Sometimes, that's all they need. To know someone recognizes they have a heavy load and are willing to help. Don't stop calling and inviting them or excluding them because their backpack is a garish shade of pink. Remember, they didn't choose to have this neon pink backpack with the lights and sirens. This is the backpack they were given.
Friday, March 11, 2016
Anti-vaxxers have compassion - just for the wrong people
Recently, a legal case started being heard in an Alberta court. The defendants are David Stephan and Collet Stephan. The parents of 19-month-old Ezekiel Stephan who died in March, 2012 of meningitis.
Why are the parents being charged? What have they been charged with? Well, quite simply, they have been charged with failing to "provide the necessities of life".
David worked at "Truehope Nutritional Support", a nutritional supplement company. They did not vaccinate their children and sought "natural remedies" for any ailments their children or themselves came down with.
Which meant when Ezekiel started showing symptoms of meningitis, they chose natural supplements over medical care. Even after they were told he might have meningitis, they forewent conventional medical care and went to what many of us in the pro-science pro-medicine community like to call "NotaDoctor".
Ezekiel suffered for a week, getting weaker, sicker and stiffer. He had a fever. He couldn't eat, because he felt so ill. According to his parents, he just wanted to "sit and snuggle" with them. He got stiffer over the course of the last week of his conscious life. He was so stiff that when they took him to Nota Doctor, they had to put him on a mattress in the back of the car. And even after NotaDoctor told them it might be meningitis and that they should take him to the hospital, they still chose to treat him at home with their natural remedies.
Then he stopped breathing.
And that is when his parents decided it might be a good time to call an ambulance.
The parents choice to wait for an ambulance, which they claim was 30 minutes away, and then claim wasn't equipped, is not only false, but to have the audacity to claim the people you called after you failed to take care of your child, didn't have the equipment, I can't even...
Ambulances are leveled as ALS or BLS. Advanced Life Support or Basic Life Support. The ambulance station closest to the Stephans had both ALS and BLS. The BLS has much of the same equipment as the ALS ambulance, which was already out on a call that night.
I'm not sure how familiar you are with anatomy, physiology and biology, but one thing I know without a doubt - it doesn't matter what the ambulance has on it, a kid that isn't breathing on his own is a dead kid. And no matter what is done or isn't done, it's impossible to make someone more dead than.. well.. dead. And Ezekiel was, essentially, dead. He was no longer breathing and the parents had yet to call a doctor.
Reports vary as to whether the Stephans drove to meet the "unequipped" ambulance or not, but either way - they had already delayed care for over a week.
The outcome, without going into all the details of who and what, is that their 19-month-old is dead because they chose to ignore the glaring evidence that he was dying.
And instead of taking responsibility for their actions, and admitting they waited too long, they are blaming the EMTs for not having the proper equipment to resuscitate their dead child. They are blaming the hospital and its staff for not being able to raise the dead. They're blaming the LifeFlite team for being unable to revive their dead son, and they are blaming Alberta Children's Hospital for not being able to use life support to make their dead kid alive.
They have blamed EVERYONE but themselves - the true cause of their child's death.
They, and the anti-vaxx community, are using their case as an example of how the government is cracking down on those who choose not to vaccinate. Except that this case has absolutely nothing to do with whether or not Ezekiel had been vaccinated. Meningitis vaccines aren't even mandatory vaccines. As a matter of fact, Banana and Squish aren't vaccinated for meningitis (yet - I have to take them in to the doctor where the vaccine is waiting for us).
The Crown isn't charging David and Collet with "failure to vaccinate". This case has absolutely NOTHING to do with a Canadian parent's right not to vaccinate. As far as I can tell, the Crown doesn't give a rat's ass as to whether or not Ezekiel was vaccinated. What the Crown cares about, and what they are pursuing, is that David and Collet withheld life-saving treatment by their own refusal to take their son to a doctor or a hospital where he would have received life-saving medications. That their actions are a direct cause to their son's death. That Ezekiel's death could have been prevented had they simply GONE TO THE DOCTOR. Had they gone to a doctor's office any time in that week when Ezekiel got stiffer and more miserable, they would not be sitting in an Alberta courthouse while the Crown argues for them to be punished for their hand in their son's death. They are playing the victim.
Had they taken Ezekiel to the doctor, they would very likely have a 4-nearly-5-year-old, who may or may not have had some lasting effects of battling meningitis, but he would be alive.
And of course, the anti-vaxxers have taken up the cause. They are siding with David and Collet. They are saying we should have "compassion" and be "understanding" of their religious beliefs (their religion does not play a part in this. Not at all). They are saying this case is to vilify them and other parents who choose not to vaccinate their children. They are trying to make this an "us" against "them" case. They are trying to say that this case is trying to make an example out of parents who should have the right to choose to not vaccinate their kids.
Do you know who they should have compassion for? Have compassion for David and Collet's surviving children. They didn't get to choose their parents, and if the Stephans Parents wind up both going to jail, those children are going into the foster care system, and they will likely be split up. If they're lucky, they'll get a decent foster family. The odds are against them in general.
Have compassion for Ezekiel. He lived his remaining days in pain and misery because of the decisions of his parents - the people who he relied on to keep him safe.
The Fifth Commandment (if you believe in Gd and the Bible) is "honour thy father and thy mother". We need a Commandment 5.5. "Honour thy child and keep him or her safe from harm, even from your own hand".
Why are the parents being charged? What have they been charged with? Well, quite simply, they have been charged with failing to "provide the necessities of life".
David worked at "Truehope Nutritional Support", a nutritional supplement company. They did not vaccinate their children and sought "natural remedies" for any ailments their children or themselves came down with.
Which meant when Ezekiel started showing symptoms of meningitis, they chose natural supplements over medical care. Even after they were told he might have meningitis, they forewent conventional medical care and went to what many of us in the pro-science pro-medicine community like to call "NotaDoctor".
Ezekiel suffered for a week, getting weaker, sicker and stiffer. He had a fever. He couldn't eat, because he felt so ill. According to his parents, he just wanted to "sit and snuggle" with them. He got stiffer over the course of the last week of his conscious life. He was so stiff that when they took him to Nota Doctor, they had to put him on a mattress in the back of the car. And even after NotaDoctor told them it might be meningitis and that they should take him to the hospital, they still chose to treat him at home with their natural remedies.
Then he stopped breathing.
And that is when his parents decided it might be a good time to call an ambulance.
The parents choice to wait for an ambulance, which they claim was 30 minutes away, and then claim wasn't equipped, is not only false, but to have the audacity to claim the people you called after you failed to take care of your child, didn't have the equipment, I can't even...
Ambulances are leveled as ALS or BLS. Advanced Life Support or Basic Life Support. The ambulance station closest to the Stephans had both ALS and BLS. The BLS has much of the same equipment as the ALS ambulance, which was already out on a call that night.
I'm not sure how familiar you are with anatomy, physiology and biology, but one thing I know without a doubt - it doesn't matter what the ambulance has on it, a kid that isn't breathing on his own is a dead kid. And no matter what is done or isn't done, it's impossible to make someone more dead than.. well.. dead. And Ezekiel was, essentially, dead. He was no longer breathing and the parents had yet to call a doctor.
Reports vary as to whether the Stephans drove to meet the "unequipped" ambulance or not, but either way - they had already delayed care for over a week.
The outcome, without going into all the details of who and what, is that their 19-month-old is dead because they chose to ignore the glaring evidence that he was dying.
And instead of taking responsibility for their actions, and admitting they waited too long, they are blaming the EMTs for not having the proper equipment to resuscitate their dead child. They are blaming the hospital and its staff for not being able to raise the dead. They're blaming the LifeFlite team for being unable to revive their dead son, and they are blaming Alberta Children's Hospital for not being able to use life support to make their dead kid alive.
They have blamed EVERYONE but themselves - the true cause of their child's death.
They, and the anti-vaxx community, are using their case as an example of how the government is cracking down on those who choose not to vaccinate. Except that this case has absolutely nothing to do with whether or not Ezekiel had been vaccinated. Meningitis vaccines aren't even mandatory vaccines. As a matter of fact, Banana and Squish aren't vaccinated for meningitis (yet - I have to take them in to the doctor where the vaccine is waiting for us).
The Crown isn't charging David and Collet with "failure to vaccinate". This case has absolutely NOTHING to do with a Canadian parent's right not to vaccinate. As far as I can tell, the Crown doesn't give a rat's ass as to whether or not Ezekiel was vaccinated. What the Crown cares about, and what they are pursuing, is that David and Collet withheld life-saving treatment by their own refusal to take their son to a doctor or a hospital where he would have received life-saving medications. That their actions are a direct cause to their son's death. That Ezekiel's death could have been prevented had they simply GONE TO THE DOCTOR. Had they gone to a doctor's office any time in that week when Ezekiel got stiffer and more miserable, they would not be sitting in an Alberta courthouse while the Crown argues for them to be punished for their hand in their son's death. They are playing the victim.
Had they taken Ezekiel to the doctor, they would very likely have a 4-nearly-5-year-old, who may or may not have had some lasting effects of battling meningitis, but he would be alive.
And of course, the anti-vaxxers have taken up the cause. They are siding with David and Collet. They are saying we should have "compassion" and be "understanding" of their religious beliefs (their religion does not play a part in this. Not at all). They are saying this case is to vilify them and other parents who choose not to vaccinate their children. They are trying to make this an "us" against "them" case. They are trying to say that this case is trying to make an example out of parents who should have the right to choose to not vaccinate their kids.
Do you know who they should have compassion for? Have compassion for David and Collet's surviving children. They didn't get to choose their parents, and if the Stephans Parents wind up both going to jail, those children are going into the foster care system, and they will likely be split up. If they're lucky, they'll get a decent foster family. The odds are against them in general.
Have compassion for Ezekiel. He lived his remaining days in pain and misery because of the decisions of his parents - the people who he relied on to keep him safe.
The Fifth Commandment (if you believe in Gd and the Bible) is "honour thy father and thy mother". We need a Commandment 5.5. "Honour thy child and keep him or her safe from harm, even from your own hand".
Wednesday, January 27, 2016
#BellLetsTalk day
January 27 is Bell's annual "Let's Talk" day. It's a day in which Bell donates money for every tweet with the hashtag #BellLetsTalk and raises money for Mental Health initiatives.
Many people who know me, know that I have, and sometimes suffer from, depression. Someone once said that depression is often worse than terminal cancer, because people with cancer have people who rally behind them, have support, and have people who bring up their self-esteem.
People with mental illnesses are often shunned, abandoned, misunderstood, and not rallied behind, not supported, and often, their self-esteem suffers.
I know this all too well. People don't want to support the person who's always down, who sometimes bails on plans because the thought of getting dressed is simply too exhausting. People stop inviting, stop calling, stop checking in.
I said in a post today that if I had cancer, I'd have friends. They'd rally around me and my family. They'd be there with food, with ideas, with ways to engage. But because depression - and mental illness in and of itself - is unpredictable, people don't know how - or perhaps don't want to - deal.
It's much easier, I guess, for them to just turn their backs and walk away, using the excuse "well, I tried." All I can say is if you truly are a friend - try harder. Just because one person in your life has suffered from depression, doesn't mean any of the other people you know who do suffer the same way. Just because one person was an ass, doesn't mean the other person is.
I found, after this summer, that the group of friends with whom I though I had a decent relationship, were not the people I thought they were. I have cut the toxic relationships out of my life - for the most part - and am focussing on meeting new people, strengthening the relationships I have (interestingly, the people I have known since high school are still in my circle of friends, despite my diagnosis. The ones I've made since marriage and kids, they're the ones who are no longer in my life). I'm deepening friendships with people I had lost touch with and meeting new people.
I also have an awesome job that I love - but makes me go to networking events and be outside my comfort zone frequently. So that's always interesting.
I'm learning what it takes for me to realize when my depression is trying to take hold, and when I'm heading into a spiral - either up or down. I have people I can rely on who will tell me when they think they see a trigger starting something. And I have people - some I know in real life, some I only know on Facebook - with whom I can discuss my hopes, my dreams, my fears and my feelings of either euphoria or abandonment - depending on the issue, the time of day and whatever other factors are at play.
I would say that I miss those friends with whom I am no longer friends, but as time goes on, I realize I don't. If they had been true friends, they'd still be around. They'd be rallying. They'd be checking in to see how I'm doing, and I would be able to check in and see how they are. It's a two sided road, I realize.
I think what some people don't seem to realize, and what isn't always well defined, is that depression is tricky. It makes you seem selfish. It makes it seem like you think everything is about you. That couldn't be further from the truth. It's worse than that. It's realizing that you are coming across as selfish and that nothing but your own problems matter. It's realizing that people perceive that, but you can't articulate that you know it's not about you. It's knowing that you should be asking people how they are, but hurting so much inside, that you don't want to ask, because you know they will ask you, and they don't really want to hear the truth.
I think one of the stigmas of mental illness, and depression in particular, is that we may come across as selfish and self-centred. The fact is, in a lot of cases, the only person we've learned we can rely on, is ourselves. And we feel completely betrayed by the fact that we can't even rely on ourselves because when depression takes hold, you can't even rely on yourself to pull yourself out of it.
I have described the feeling to my husband, who sells flooring (carpet, etc), this way: Imagine you have a bale of carpet (they weigh 100+pounds) that you are carrying around everywhere. You can't put this bale of carpet down. Not to eat, not to go to the bathroom, not to drive. You have to carry this bale everywhere. Imagine how exhausted you would be long before the end of the day. THAT is depression. In its most simplistic description.
But not everyday is like that. And now, having cut out the toxic relationships, having a job I love, friends I'm becoming closer to, and new friends, I have many fewer days where that black cloud - or bale of carpet - descend on me.
I just wish more people would talk - and I wish that "how are you?" was really an invitation to say exactly how you are. I wish I could say to someone "I'm a little depressed today, but I'll be okay, thanks for asking."
Many people who know me, know that I have, and sometimes suffer from, depression. Someone once said that depression is often worse than terminal cancer, because people with cancer have people who rally behind them, have support, and have people who bring up their self-esteem.
People with mental illnesses are often shunned, abandoned, misunderstood, and not rallied behind, not supported, and often, their self-esteem suffers.
I know this all too well. People don't want to support the person who's always down, who sometimes bails on plans because the thought of getting dressed is simply too exhausting. People stop inviting, stop calling, stop checking in.
I said in a post today that if I had cancer, I'd have friends. They'd rally around me and my family. They'd be there with food, with ideas, with ways to engage. But because depression - and mental illness in and of itself - is unpredictable, people don't know how - or perhaps don't want to - deal.
It's much easier, I guess, for them to just turn their backs and walk away, using the excuse "well, I tried." All I can say is if you truly are a friend - try harder. Just because one person in your life has suffered from depression, doesn't mean any of the other people you know who do suffer the same way. Just because one person was an ass, doesn't mean the other person is.
I found, after this summer, that the group of friends with whom I though I had a decent relationship, were not the people I thought they were. I have cut the toxic relationships out of my life - for the most part - and am focussing on meeting new people, strengthening the relationships I have (interestingly, the people I have known since high school are still in my circle of friends, despite my diagnosis. The ones I've made since marriage and kids, they're the ones who are no longer in my life). I'm deepening friendships with people I had lost touch with and meeting new people.
I also have an awesome job that I love - but makes me go to networking events and be outside my comfort zone frequently. So that's always interesting.
I'm learning what it takes for me to realize when my depression is trying to take hold, and when I'm heading into a spiral - either up or down. I have people I can rely on who will tell me when they think they see a trigger starting something. And I have people - some I know in real life, some I only know on Facebook - with whom I can discuss my hopes, my dreams, my fears and my feelings of either euphoria or abandonment - depending on the issue, the time of day and whatever other factors are at play.
I would say that I miss those friends with whom I am no longer friends, but as time goes on, I realize I don't. If they had been true friends, they'd still be around. They'd be rallying. They'd be checking in to see how I'm doing, and I would be able to check in and see how they are. It's a two sided road, I realize.
I think what some people don't seem to realize, and what isn't always well defined, is that depression is tricky. It makes you seem selfish. It makes it seem like you think everything is about you. That couldn't be further from the truth. It's worse than that. It's realizing that you are coming across as selfish and that nothing but your own problems matter. It's realizing that people perceive that, but you can't articulate that you know it's not about you. It's knowing that you should be asking people how they are, but hurting so much inside, that you don't want to ask, because you know they will ask you, and they don't really want to hear the truth.
I think one of the stigmas of mental illness, and depression in particular, is that we may come across as selfish and self-centred. The fact is, in a lot of cases, the only person we've learned we can rely on, is ourselves. And we feel completely betrayed by the fact that we can't even rely on ourselves because when depression takes hold, you can't even rely on yourself to pull yourself out of it.
I have described the feeling to my husband, who sells flooring (carpet, etc), this way: Imagine you have a bale of carpet (they weigh 100+pounds) that you are carrying around everywhere. You can't put this bale of carpet down. Not to eat, not to go to the bathroom, not to drive. You have to carry this bale everywhere. Imagine how exhausted you would be long before the end of the day. THAT is depression. In its most simplistic description.
But not everyday is like that. And now, having cut out the toxic relationships, having a job I love, friends I'm becoming closer to, and new friends, I have many fewer days where that black cloud - or bale of carpet - descend on me.
I just wish more people would talk - and I wish that "how are you?" was really an invitation to say exactly how you are. I wish I could say to someone "I'm a little depressed today, but I'll be okay, thanks for asking."
Thursday, November 12, 2015
Hey, Vani Hari, Put Your Money Where Your Mouth Is!
Vani Hari, the self-proclaimed "Food Babe" (I have another name for her, but it's not fit to print), has decided to wade into the War on Christmas. Not with a plain red cup (which, for the record, and the topic of another post, is NOT a war on Christmas - it's a cup!) but with food. (Albeit with a recycled post from 2014)
The holiday season is supposed to be a time of joy, giving, goodwill toward your fellow man. It's supposed to be a time where we put aside our differences and help out where we can. It's supposed to be a time where we look beyond ourselves and our wants, and help those in need.
Unless, of course, you're a pretentious git, and then you find a way to make the holidays more about how much fear you can muster up in your loyal followers (brainwashed minions?).
Yup, Vani Hari has managed to attack a program that hundreds of people rely on at this time of year. The holiday turkey, often given away to customers of supermarkets around the United States and Canada, as their way of thanking people for shopping in their store. Many people would not be able to afford turkeys, let alone groceries above the cost of a turkey, without this free gift from their local market.
There are people who will go shop at the store, take the free turkey, and then (gasp!) donate it to a women's or homeless shelter, so their clients can have turkey for Thanksgiving or Christmas.
But when you're Vani Hari, and you can afford organic, free range, heirloom (hair loom?) turkey, why not vilify a program that hundreds - thousands - of people rely on annually, if not daily?
Food Babe claims that she's been to "numerous holiday parties where I had no control over the ingredients" (http://foodbabe.com/2014/11/06/this-drug-has-sickened-thousands-of-animals-will-it-be-at-your-holiday-feast/) and claims she was polite, but that now that she knows what's in food, she just can't sit down and shut up, which believe me, many people would like for her to do.
She's now gone and attacked the "free turkey" program at many grocery stores. You know the ones? Spend a certain amount of money at their store and they will gift you a free turkey for you to serve on your holiday table. Just think of the cost savings!! You need milk and eggs anyway, so go buy your groceries, plus your holiday trimmings and the store will give you your turkey FOR FREE*!! What could be better than that?
Well, if you're Vani Hari, you can certainly FIND something wrong with that, just to ensure her bank account continues to grow. Because there is nothing Vani Hari does better than pad her accounts and line her own pockets through often undeclared affiliate sales through her website.
So, what's her beef (or in this case, why is she crying 'fowl' on) with this program? Well, it would seem that the turkeys the store is going to give you aren't "free of antibiotics, and are raised on a diet of GMOs" (http://foodbabe.com/2014/11/06/this-drug-has-sickened-thousands-of-animals-will-it-be-at-your-holiday-feast/). She claims that turkeys are "pumped full of antibiotics" and blames the use for creating a "major human health issue". Sigh.
But that's not all! Oh no! If you act now, you could also be exposed to **Toxic levels of a drug called Topmax (also known as Ractopamine) (http://foodbabe.com/2014/11/06/this-drug-has-sickened-thousands-of-animals-will-it-be-at-your-holiday-feast/)
(Actually, it's called Ractopamine Hydrocholoride, but let's not confuse Ms. Hari with the big words - after all, she says if you can't pronounce it you shouldn't eat it!!) (http://www.drugs.com/pro/topmax.html)
According to the FDA, Ractopamine Hydrochloride is used as such:
According to Ms. Hari, this "drug" (food additive for weight gain) is responsible for the deaths of animals and horrible health problems. But according to a study conducted by the FDA, there were no adverse health effects on the turkeys studied:
There are warnings on the label (as is highlighted on Ms. Hari's site) that this medication is not for human use, but does that mean because humans shouldn't ingest the drug, that it's unsafe once it's been metabolized in an animal? As a matter of fact, the highest amount of metabolized Ractopamine residue found in the Health Canada study was 0.222 ppm (parts per million) in turkeys. Health Canada's summary found Ractopamine, once metabolized by the animals, is safe for human consumption.
Once again, Ms. Hari is using her talents as a fearmongerer to sway gullible people away from what some people may rely on for the holidays. It must be nice to be able to afford an organic, GMO free, free-range heirloom (hair loom) turkey. After all, you can get one of those for a mere: $89.92 to $104.79 if you were smart enough to pre-order an 18-21 pound turkey from Diesel Turkey Ranch in California (http://diestelturkey.com/).
So, Vani Hari, or Food Babe, as you narcissistically prefer to be called, put your money where your mouth is. With so many people relying on food banks, food stamp programs and so many children living in homes with a high rate of food insecurity, why not donate 1,000 organic, free-range, GMO free turkeys to the less fortunate, so they can eat healthy this holiday too? Let's see you do something for the betterment of mankind, instead of your usual spouting off on topics you don't understand, or, if you do, find the scariest sounding thing to vilify in order to get people flocking to your online store, where you sell products with the same chemicals and additives you so vehemently speak out against.
I call on every reader of this post to send a message to Ms. Hari - if the free turkeys are so bad, why not donate some organic, free-range, GMO free turkeys!?
C'mon Vani - you know you can afford it. You claim to have people's health and well being in mind with your activism. It's the holiday season. Goodwill, kindness towards your fellow man. Let's see you donate at least 1,000 of Vani-approved turkeys to your local homeless or women's shelters.
As for me, I'll be getting my turkey from the grocery store.
*while supplies last
** emphasis is author's own, used in sarcasm
The holiday season is supposed to be a time of joy, giving, goodwill toward your fellow man. It's supposed to be a time where we put aside our differences and help out where we can. It's supposed to be a time where we look beyond ourselves and our wants, and help those in need.
Unless, of course, you're a pretentious git, and then you find a way to make the holidays more about how much fear you can muster up in your loyal followers (brainwashed minions?).
Yup, Vani Hari has managed to attack a program that hundreds of people rely on at this time of year. The holiday turkey, often given away to customers of supermarkets around the United States and Canada, as their way of thanking people for shopping in their store. Many people would not be able to afford turkeys, let alone groceries above the cost of a turkey, without this free gift from their local market.
There are people who will go shop at the store, take the free turkey, and then (gasp!) donate it to a women's or homeless shelter, so their clients can have turkey for Thanksgiving or Christmas.
In 2014, there were 46.7 million people living in poverty in the United States. 48.1 million people lived in a state of food insecurity. 15.3 million of those were children.
In 2014, 61 percent of food-insecure households participated in at least one of the three major federal food assistance programs –Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program (SNAP-formerly Food Stamp Program), The National School Lunch Program (NSLP), and the Special Supplemental Nutrition Program for Women, Infants, and Children (WIC) -- in the prior month.(http://www.feedingamerica.org/hunger-in-america/impact-of-hunger/hunger-and-poverty/hunger-and-poverty-fact-sheet.html?referrer=https://www.google.ca/)
But when you're Vani Hari, and you can afford organic, free range, heirloom (hair loom?) turkey, why not vilify a program that hundreds - thousands - of people rely on annually, if not daily?
Food Babe claims that she's been to "numerous holiday parties where I had no control over the ingredients" (http://foodbabe.com/2014/11/06/this-drug-has-sickened-thousands-of-animals-will-it-be-at-your-holiday-feast/) and claims she was polite, but that now that she knows what's in food, she just can't sit down and shut up, which believe me, many people would like for her to do.
She's now gone and attacked the "free turkey" program at many grocery stores. You know the ones? Spend a certain amount of money at their store and they will gift you a free turkey for you to serve on your holiday table. Just think of the cost savings!! You need milk and eggs anyway, so go buy your groceries, plus your holiday trimmings and the store will give you your turkey FOR FREE*!! What could be better than that?
Well, if you're Vani Hari, you can certainly FIND something wrong with that, just to ensure her bank account continues to grow. Because there is nothing Vani Hari does better than pad her accounts and line her own pockets through often undeclared affiliate sales through her website.
So, what's her beef (or in this case, why is she crying 'fowl' on) with this program? Well, it would seem that the turkeys the store is going to give you aren't "free of antibiotics, and are raised on a diet of GMOs" (http://foodbabe.com/2014/11/06/this-drug-has-sickened-thousands-of-animals-will-it-be-at-your-holiday-feast/). She claims that turkeys are "pumped full of antibiotics" and blames the use for creating a "major human health issue". Sigh.
But that's not all! Oh no! If you act now, you could also be exposed to **Toxic levels of a drug called Topmax (also known as Ractopamine) (http://foodbabe.com/2014/11/06/this-drug-has-sickened-thousands-of-animals-will-it-be-at-your-holiday-feast/)
(Actually, it's called Ractopamine Hydrocholoride, but let's not confuse Ms. Hari with the big words - after all, she says if you can't pronounce it you shouldn't eat it!!) (http://www.drugs.com/pro/topmax.html)
According to the FDA, Ractopamine Hydrochloride is used as such:
Toms: For increased rate of weight gain and improved feed efficiency in finishing tom turkeys when fed for the last 14 days prior to slaughter.
Hens: For increased rate of weight gain and improved feed efficiency in finishing hen turkeys when fed for the last 7 to 14 days prior to slaughter (http://www.drugs.com/pro/topmax.html)
According to Ms. Hari, this "drug" (food additive for weight gain) is responsible for the deaths of animals and horrible health problems. But according to a study conducted by the FDA, there were no adverse health effects on the turkeys studied:
e. Results Summary No abnormal health concerns were identified. The treatment-related effects associated with muscle were: an increase in the number of animals with mononuclear cell infiltrate and myofiber degeneration (Tables 22 and 23) and an increase in the concentration of serum creatine kinase (Table 24). Additionally, feeding RAC at 13 or 130 ppm to Hybrid finishing hen turkeys was associated with an increase in the number of animals with microscopic muscle alterations. The muscle lesions were of the type reported in clinically normal populations of rapidly growing turkeys. They did not cause any apparent clinical signs (mobility or postural), the muscle was normal at gross examination, and the microscopic alterations were minimal in severity, affecting approximately less than 1% of muscle fibers within a given section
(http://www.fda.gov/downloads/AnimalVeterinary/Products/ApprovedAnimalDrugProducts/FOIADrugSummaries/ucm091516.pdf). The entire study can be read here
And a study done by Health Canada revealed this regarding the pharmacokinetics of the drug:
Ractopamine metabolises solely by conjugation and has relatively short half-life.The entire study can be read here
• Absorption is rapid from gastrointestinal tract, with a fraction of at least 45 % for cattle and more than 85% for swine.
• Tissue distribution of ractopamine is extensive and occurs rapidly
• Total residue reaches the steady-state level 4 days after initiation of feeding
• Non-extractable residues also reach the steady-state level after 4 days and represent 26-29% and 15-16% of total residue in liver and kidney
• Residues relatively persist in liver and kidney but deplete fast from muscle and fat
• Low lipophilicity ( very low level residue found in fat tissue)
• The metabolic rate of ractopamine HCl is similar in the target species (pigs and cattle), laboratory animals and humans
There are warnings on the label (as is highlighted on Ms. Hari's site) that this medication is not for human use, but does that mean because humans shouldn't ingest the drug, that it's unsafe once it's been metabolized in an animal? As a matter of fact, the highest amount of metabolized Ractopamine residue found in the Health Canada study was 0.222 ppm (parts per million) in turkeys. Health Canada's summary found Ractopamine, once metabolized by the animals, is safe for human consumption.
Once again, Ms. Hari is using her talents as a fearmongerer to sway gullible people away from what some people may rely on for the holidays. It must be nice to be able to afford an organic, GMO free, free-range heirloom (hair loom) turkey. After all, you can get one of those for a mere: $89.92 to $104.79 if you were smart enough to pre-order an 18-21 pound turkey from Diesel Turkey Ranch in California (http://diestelturkey.com/).
So, Vani Hari, or Food Babe, as you narcissistically prefer to be called, put your money where your mouth is. With so many people relying on food banks, food stamp programs and so many children living in homes with a high rate of food insecurity, why not donate 1,000 organic, free-range, GMO free turkeys to the less fortunate, so they can eat healthy this holiday too? Let's see you do something for the betterment of mankind, instead of your usual spouting off on topics you don't understand, or, if you do, find the scariest sounding thing to vilify in order to get people flocking to your online store, where you sell products with the same chemicals and additives you so vehemently speak out against.
I call on every reader of this post to send a message to Ms. Hari - if the free turkeys are so bad, why not donate some organic, free-range, GMO free turkeys!?
C'mon Vani - you know you can afford it. You claim to have people's health and well being in mind with your activism. It's the holiday season. Goodwill, kindness towards your fellow man. Let's see you donate at least 1,000 of Vani-approved turkeys to your local homeless or women's shelters.
As for me, I'll be getting my turkey from the grocery store.
*while supplies last
** emphasis is author's own, used in sarcasm
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